Posted by Bob Cocivi on Tuesday, May 18, 2004 at 10:24PM :
I'm not trying to sound like a jerk but these are the times when your going to learn the most.
By that I mean you need a car to get to work, to make money, but you can't get to work if your car wont go. You need money to fix your car, but you can't get to work to earn money to well, you know, fix the car.
You will some how get through this, you will
maybe go 2 steps forward and possibly 5 backwards. This will teach you patients,
mechanics, and how to deal with situations that you really can't deal with because of all the other lessons that life is teaching you at that time.
Also how not to make the same choices twice.
I'm not saying that you made bad choices, you'll just do things differently next time,and the time after that.
Try and tell yourself that these are just like sore muscles after a tough work out at the gym, in a couple of days these pains will go away and I'll be ready for a tougher workout. After this you'll be able to get thruogh anything, and you will!
Sorry to sound like a ___________ ____ ____!
But many/most have/are and probably will be in this type of situation.
Best of luck!
Bob C.